
Caring for a loved one is a tough job, one that many of us take on willingly with love and honor. There are so many things to worry about—physical and mental difficulties, financial and legal issues, and day-to-day care. When you are caring for a loved one with dementia you’re looking at unique challenges. Being a caregiver for someone with dementia can be frustrating, exhausting, and just plain lonely. When someone you care for has dementia, you’re also living with it, but you’re not alone.
How the Library Can Help
The Library can offer connection:
- to information
- to resources
- to entertainment
- to respite and self-care
There is so much information out there about Alzheimer’s disease and dementias. There are news sources, social media, even your neighbor down the street. What source do you trust? Which information do you pick? Using the Library can connect you to trusted sources in a way that’s convenient for you.
Library Programs
- Event: Caregiver Support
- Date & Time: Wednesday, June 11, 11:00am
- Location: Beech Grove Branch
- Description: Join us for this delightful time supporting both caregivers of adults, and those who receive care. If that is you – or if you would like to sit alongside your neighbors in this program, come on in to this every-other-week program!
- Register Here
- Event: Caregiver Support
- Date & Time: Wednesday, June 25, 11:00am
- Location: Beech Grove Branch
- Description: Join us for this delightful time supporting both caregivers of adults, and those who receive care. If that is you – or if you would like to sit alongside your neighbors in this program, come on in to this every-other-week program!
- Register Here
- Event: Understanding “The Systems”, a Roundtable Conversation
- Date & Time: Wednesday, June 25, 12:00pm
- Location: Beech Grove Branch
- Description: Join other caregivers (or soon-to-be caregivers or receivers) to better understand the world of Medicaid, Medicare, Vouchers, and other Systems you’d like to know more about. Boxed lunches will be provided for all who pre-register, but all are welcome to show up and learn more.
- Register Here
- Event: Caregiver Support
- Date & Time: Wednesday, July 09, 11:00am
- Location: Beech Grove Branch
- Description: Join us for this delightful time supporting both caregivers of adults, and those who receive care. If that is you – or if you would like to sit alongside your neighbors in this program, come on in to this every-other-week program!
- Register Here
- Event: Caregiver Support
- Date & Time: Wednesday, July 23, 11:00am
- Location: Beech Grove Branch
- Description: Join us for this delightful time supporting both caregivers of adults, and those who receive care. If that is you – or if you would like to sit alongside your neighbors in this program, come on in to this every-other-week program!
- Register Here
Dementia Resources in the Library Catalog

The Library catalog includes book lists created by staff to help you navigate the sometimes overwhelming amount of material available. If you see a book you like, you can find out where it’s located. If it isn’t at your neighborhood branch you can place a hold and have it sent to the branch that’s most convenient for you.
- Book List: Brain Health
- Book List: Caregiving for Older Adults
- Book List: Caring for a Loved One With Dementia
Articles about Dementia in Online Databases
Another way to find information is by searching online databases that the Library subscribes to with your Library card. Many times the latest research or resource is available in a magazine or journal article. Through the databases, you can find an articles that could help with a specific challenge or interest. For example, browse the results of this search for articles about music therapy and Alzheimer’s published in the last five years.
What makes this even more convenient is that the book lists, The Library’s catalog, and the articles can all be reached through your home computer, your tablet, or your smartphone 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.
Reading Aloud
Reading aloud with your adult loved one improves family bonds and fosters cooperation, just like when you read to children. Many programs in memory care involve reading aloud or looking at picture books to improve cognition, memory, and quality of life.
Picture books, especially with larger type and fewer words, are often easier to see and understand. Did you read classics like The Very Hungry Caterpillar when you were a child? You can read this again and share your memories with your loved one.
In addition to children’s books, people with dementia also enjoy coffee-table books and travel books filled with photographs and illustrations. Books like Penguins by Frans Lanting or Indianapolis: Then and Now by Nelson Price provide large photographs that can stimulate conversation and memories for both the loved one with dementia and their caregivers.
If you feel you can’t get to a Library location, you can choose e-book picture books to download to your computer or mobile device through OverDrive, Hoopla, or the TumbleBooks Library.
e-Books & Streaming
Download and stream millions of e-books, movies, music, and more instantly for free with your Library card. No late fees, no worries.
Please visit e-Book & Streaming Help for detailed information about how to use our digital collections and get ideas to make the most of your Library card at home.
Need help? Ask a Library staff member at any of our locations or call, text or email Ask-a-Librarian. The Tinker Station helpline at (317) 275-4500 is also available. It is staffed by device experts who can answer questions about how to read, watch and listen on a PC, tablet or phone.
Magazines
Books aren’t the only place you can look for colorful pictures and photographs; magazines are a great resource. Most back issues of magazines can be checked out at branch locations. There is a large number of magazines available for viewing and downloading online through OverDrive Magazines.
Reading aloud together, looking at books and pictures together can provide not only connection with your loved one, but a respite for both of you while caring for a loved one with dementia.
Music
Whether it’s music from the past or a catchy tune, it’s heartening to see a friend or loved one living with dementia respond to a piece of music, sometimes by moving or swaying to a Motown beat, other times by singing all the verses to Silent Night, remembering all the words when many of us couldn’t get past the first few lines.
While you may think of the public library as a connection to the wider world through books, it’s also a connection through music.
With a Library card, you can:
- Borrow a wide variety of music on CDs, from early classical to the latest hip hop, and everything in between.
- Borrow and stream a wide variety of music directly to your computer or mobile device through Hoopla without being on a waiting list or waiting for your branch to open.
- The library’s connection with music extends to free live concerts & performances throughout the year. See our schedule of music performances.
It’s an opportunity for an outing that doesn’t involve tickets, dressing up, or an entire evening’s commitment; time watching beautiful music made in a comfortable setting, which could make the afternoon caring for a loved one with dementia enjoyable for both of you.
- Event: Teddy Bear Concert with the Indianapolis Symphony Orchestra
- Date & Time: Saturday, May 31, 11:00am
- Location: Decatur Branch
- Description: Young children and their families are invited to an introduction to the orchestra through story, movement and live music. Teddy bears welcome! Space is limited.
- No Registration Required.
- Event: Teddy Bear Concert Series with the Indianapolis Symphony Orchestra
- Date & Time: Saturday, June 21, 11:00am
- Location: Central Library
- Description: Celebrate Make Music Day with a Teddy Bear Concert! Young children and their families are invited to an introduction to the orchestra through story, movement and live music. Teddy bears welcome!
- No Registration Required.
- Event: Circulating Sound Concert
- Date & Time: Saturday, June 21, 2:00pm
- Location: Eagle Branch
- Description: Join us for a concert featuring traditional and original Middle Eastern musical stylings with Salaam!
- No Registration Required.
- Event: Circulating Sound Concert
- Date & Time: Saturday, June 21, 3:00pm
- Location: Haughville Branch
- Description: Join us for a special International Make Music Day concert featuring violin learners from the Indianapolis Suzuki Academy! Share this joy with your kiddos, your grown ups, and anyone who wants to be amazed!
- No Registration Required.
- Event: Guelaguetza Mosaicos Festival 2025
- Date & Time: Saturday, July 12, 12:00pm
- Location: Central Library
- Description: Travel to Oaxaca, Mexico without leaving Indianapolis! Enjoy performances, community mercado (shops) ,and informational booths.
- No Registration Required.
Ask a Library staff member at any of our locations or call, text, or email Ask-a-Librarian.